If you imagine that somebody who has always shown that they love you has done you a wrong and rather than giving them the benefit of the doubt, turning the other cheek, implicitly forgiving them (all of the things Jesus would do) or talking about it you give them the cold shoulder, clam up, refuse to be warm, refuse to talk, try to make them suffer emotionally, act distant and aloof, hold a grudge… well, frankly, if you do that you are acting petty, immature, mean, shallow, selfish, obnoxious, destructive and unloving. That type of personality is just about the ugliest one there is. And that’s all I’ve got to say about it. Don’t intentionally hurt the people you supposedly love. Ever. Never, ever. Accidents happen, sure, but talk first and listen and work it out. The rest of that crap is evil and you will kill your relationships with it. Your friendships, your loves… you’ll lose them all and it will be your fault.
Things I like today: sunshine, herbal tea, Combustible Edison, the bus driver’s voice, Jean-Pierre Juenet, Golden Grahms, Isaac Asimov, ASL
Things I dislike today: pettiness, people, grudges, letdowns, dog vomit, tiredness, headaches, the thickness of my wallet, going to work, going home
Why is it so hard to find a copy of “The Naked Sun”? Why? Granted, I only went to two stores, but come on…
I wish I was fishing.
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